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No, they won't admit it because they don't see the worry when they're in it. They see these people, who did not ask to be here, who did not want to be here, for the large part, and who have no choice to be here - as somehow equals in a relationship.

People who are at a crossroads and need their heads to be as clear as possible. People who are going through the biggest transformations of their lives.

Also very good points.

This place isn't about relationships. Sure, they can form - this place fosters relationships, even where there were none, but only when both parties are equals in where they stand.

But people will justify their behavior any way they can as long as they're getting some pleasure out of what's happening.

For the most part, yes. And when it comes to relationships, they are unusually defensive. Even to the detriment of others and each other.

It's the blind defensiveness that exhausts me.

It isn't much of a secret anymore, but Will and Malcolm are the ones I protest the most.

But I've already talked to him about it and it went - poorly.

Yeah. [A sigh] Yeah Malcolm's who I fought with. He doesn't want to hear it.

It's wildly unethical. Especially from him.

I have often been at the other end of people not understanding my point of view, but this place's casual take on shit like this is - well, to put it real plain, I feel fucking crazy.

That's why it shocked me that he's in such denial. He, of all people, should know better.

You're not crazy. Neither am I. This place is different but some things are universal.

I feel like I even make space for the established connections. I can't fault people for having a relationship with someone they had a relationship with before they arrived here, as long as that relationship isn't the thing that brought them here.

[He thinks specifically of Shaw and Root. He doesn't object at all to that.]

...Yeah. Maybe. It depends on if they let it hinder the work being done.

That's true of anything, though. Any of those relationships.

Seems like a really good reason not to get too involved with any coworkers.

Not too deeply involved, anyway.

A professional amount, whatever that means.

Well, don't let that stop you from making friends, at least.

Or losing them when I don't cheer for their relationships?

I don't cheer Will's relationship, yet I am perfectly happy being friends with him.

Most people are more reasonable.

Didn't you say it ruined a professional relationship?

With Bright, yes.

I'm sorry. I understand, I'm just...sorry it's gone that way.

I'm not.

He and I never got along.

He's a good person. I think he just lets his loneliness make a lot of decisions for him that shouldn't be made.

You have a very charitable view.

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