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Re: private;
heyboss
2023-10-09 01:40 am (UTC)
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Well, don't let that stop you from making friends, at least.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-09 02:07 am (UTC)
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Or losing them when I don't cheer for their relationships?
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heyboss
2023-10-09 02:59 am (UTC)
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I don't cheer Will's relationship, yet I am perfectly happy being friends with him.
Most people are more reasonable.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-09 07:43 pm (UTC)
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Didn't you say it ruined a professional relationship?
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heyboss
2023-10-09 08:43 pm (UTC)
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With Bright, yes.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-09 09:22 pm (UTC)
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I'm sorry. I understand, I'm just...sorry it's gone that way.
Re: private;
heyboss
2023-10-10 02:29 pm (UTC)
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I'm not.
He and I never got along.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-10 05:40 pm (UTC)
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He's a good person. I think he just lets his loneliness make a lot of decisions for him that shouldn't be made.
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heyboss
2023-10-11 01:46 am (UTC)
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You have a very charitable view.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-11 01:47 am (UTC)
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You don't?
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heyboss
2023-10-11 02:06 am (UTC)
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Not with him, no.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 12:41 am (UTC)
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That's not very counselor-like, Doctor.
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heyboss
2023-10-12 01:05 am (UTC)
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I'm a psychiatrist. And I care about the people here and the experience and conflicts and hardships they face.
And when one of my colleagues is being widely unethical and has been hostile to me from the start, I don't have to accept that behavior.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 01:08 am (UTC)
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That's fair. But we do all have to work together don't we?
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heyboss
2023-10-12 01:11 am (UTC)
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I get what you're trying to do. However, I would appreciate you not trying to mediate, especially one sided, without being given all the facts.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 01:11 am (UTC)
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I'm a pathological middleman.
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heyboss
2023-10-12 01:17 am (UTC)
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A simultaneously useful and burdensome trait, to be sure.
But we've had mediations. So again, I see the effort. But this has been over six months in the making.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 01:28 am (UTC)
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That's...unfortunate.
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heyboss
2023-10-12 01:32 am (UTC)
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It is. I wish I was much different. I do like Will.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 01:33 am (UTC)
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Me, too. It'd be easier if I didn't, I think. I'd still be frustrated about his relationship but I wouldn't
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Re: private;
heyboss
2023-10-12 01:47 am (UTC)
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I agree.
Either way, thank you for talking to me, Jesus. It's good to know there are some people with some sense.
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hippie_ninja
2023-10-12 01:52 am (UTC)
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Thanks for helping me keep it in perspective.
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He and I never got along.
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And when one of my colleagues is being widely unethical and has been hostile to me from the start, I don't have to accept that behavior.
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But we've had mediations. So again, I see the effort. But this has been over six months in the making.
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Either way, thank you for talking to me, Jesus. It's good to know there are some people with some sense.
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