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Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[falkeditupagain]

I mean, I told him to ask me next time he decided I needed something done on my behalf...

[That was the closest he'd been able to express that he actually was upset about it. Though now having gone through it, having thought about how complicated this could get, he feels that's not really enough.]

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[heyboss]

And you're satisfied with that?

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[falkeditupagain]

His response wasn't the most convincing. [More like 'yes, yes. I'll do that when you can prove to me you would actually fight for yourself'.]

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[heyboss]

Sounds like a no. And that you're only going to be disappointed when it happens again.

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[falkeditupagain]

You'd think saying please would help but I don't think it did in this specific instance.

Part of me is weighing whether or not being disappointed in the future is better than having this conversation. [Hanna, no.]

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[heyboss]

Hanna, do you like this man? Do you want this relationship to work?

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[falkeditupagain]

[Well that sure gets his attention.]

I- Yes? I mean, I don't think I'd be talking to you about it if I didn't want it to. I'm kind of invested.

Re: After the Cat-box fiasco - Audio

[heyboss]

Then you have to be firm. Set boundaries. That's the work you do.